Having watched my youngest, now 35, born, I have trouble with the notion that 10 seconds before she was born she wasn’t a human life. At some point a fetus does become a life. The debate for me is when. I think you’re being inflexible by not having any debate at all.
You are blind to your own extremism, or even worse, trying to justify it by claiming moderate positions are the problem. Wake up, you are the problem. The notion the a baby is not a human life at 9 months, just because they haven’t been delivered yet is not only a fringe position, it’s gross and inhuman.