Welcome home, fellow Gator.

The Gator Nation's oldest and most active insider community
Join today!

Berkeley Prof tangles with Sen Hawley, calls him trans phobic

Discussion in 'Too Hot for Swamp Gas' started by Orange_and_Bluke, Jul 13, 2022.

  1. WESGATORS

    WESGATORS Moderator VIP Member

    22,517
    1,360
    2,008
    Apr 3, 2007
    You have two assumptions here that I do not agree with. While it's true sometimes "being a man" involves a recognition of certain attributes that are considered respectable, these attributes are not exclusive to males, and when females demonstrate said attributes, it's not considered a compliment to tell them they are "being a man." "Being a man" is a reference to a cultural identity of what males are expected to do. It's good enough, for me, at least, to recognize that what's "being a man" in some cultures is not "being a man" in other cultures. A propensity to get in a fight is one example that comes to mind. Owning a firearm to use it as a threat vs. seeking to de-escalate is another example. I would never use the concept of "being a man" in this context outside of folks that I know are like-minded culturally. In other words, there is no universal standard implied or expected. One example here might be "being a man" to a Christian has implied integrity/accountability aspects built in that non-Christian "men" might not agree with or adhere to.

    And to say there's always been a social component to it ignores the countless times that the terms male/man have been used interchangeably (as have female/woman). The challenge is for those that seek to disenfranchise the two terms to present a healthy way to allow the idea to be accepted (or rejected for that matter).

    Go GATORS!
    ,WESGATORS
     
    • Agree Agree x 1
  2. dynogator

    dynogator VIP Member

    6,373
    318
    418
    Apr 9, 2007
    Men can get pregnant?
     
    • Funny Funny x 2
  3. VAg8r1

    VAg8r1 GC Hall of Fame

    20,972
    1,739
    1,763
    Apr 8, 2007
    Adding that the caveat that I haven't read every post in this thread and while I am probably much more sympathetic to transgender persons than the majority of posters on this board, a person with ovaries and a uterus and the capacity for pregnancy is woman even if that person happens to have facial and body hair from the administration of male hormones and identifies as male.
     
    • Agree Agree x 1
  4. mrhansduck

    mrhansduck GC Hall of Fame

    4,821
    1,000
    1,788
    Nov 23, 2021
    I think it's compassionate and respectful that you are willing to personally address an individual transgender person consistent with their gender identity and preference despite whatever convictions you have about it. I do not think it's a leap to extend that same rationale of respect when speaking about a transgender person you don't know or when speaking about transgender folks collectively/as a group. The latter scenarios require no additional concessions than you're already making to the individual you personally know or are speaking to directly; you can still have opinions about fairness in sports, etc. Just my two cents.
     
    • Agree Agree x 2
  5. dangolegators

    dangolegators GC Hall of Fame

    Apr 26, 2007
    No, you just disappoint me. I expect better from you because I know you are a smart decent person. I have a lot more respect for you than I do some of the other conservative-leaning posters here. So you catch my attention when you say stuff I strongly disagree with.
     
    • Agree Agree x 1
  6. PerSeGator

    PerSeGator GC Hall of Fame

    2,290
    366
    1,993
    Jun 14, 2014
    There are absolutely different views and expectations of what it means to be a man; however, there is enough commonality that most people who identify as men prefer to be viewed as men, particularly by their cultural peers.

    Which, again, is why saying a man, even a trans man, isn't a man is pretty inherently insulting.

    Put yourself in yourself their shoes. I assume you identify as a man. If everyone you told that to took one look at you and responded with "nah, you ain't a real man" how would you feel? Honestly.

    Maybe you're a mental fortress and could just brush it off by saying to yourself that everyone has different views of what it means to be a man. But for most people, I'd say they'd feel pretty darn ostracized and demeaned.

    All people want to do is give that same consideration to trans folk. It costs nothing to treat them respectfully and call them what they wish to be called.
     
    • Fistbump/Thanks! Fistbump/Thanks! x 1
    • Winner Winner x 1
  7. gatorpa

    gatorpa GC Hall of Fame

    11,607
    1,102
    698
    Sep 5, 2010
    East Coast of FL
    According to what I've been instructed in this thread pro-lifers aren't just waging a war on Women, they are waging a war on Men(if they are pregnant also)
     
  8. Orange_and_Bluke

    Orange_and_Bluke Premium Member

    9,969
    2,381
    3,038
    Dec 16, 2015
    In the libbie brave new world yes. And we must support it, teach our children, show them pics or be called bigots.
     
  9. g8trjax

    g8trjax GC Hall of Fame

    5,189
    447
    293
    Jun 1, 2007
    Red letter day in THFSG, all the religious bigots have found tolerance. :emoji_joy:
     
  10. wgbgator

    wgbgator Premium Member

    29,899
    1,861
    1,968
    Apr 19, 2007
    Just think of how much people think of being a 'man' is in relationship to all the stuff people would tell you was for "pussies" at a formative age, like crying or liking soccer.
     
    • Agree Agree x 1
  11. Gator715

    Gator715 GC Hall of Fame

    6,909
    846
    2,103
    Dec 6, 2015
    Racism is evil.

    Acknowledgment of basic biology is truth. The truth sometimes hurts people's feelings, it stings for some people more than others.

    Actual racists are shamed because their views are evil, incorrect, and naturally exclusive, people who believe in basic biology should not be shamed for believing in the truth. I know this is an overdone comparison, but that's right out of 1984. Society will pressure and intimidate you into thinking 2 + 2 = 5.
     
    • Agree Agree x 1
  12. Gator715

    Gator715 GC Hall of Fame

    6,909
    846
    2,103
    Dec 6, 2015
    It is not exclusive of them, gator_lawyer, it's just categorizing them based on fact rather than fiction. Nobody's saying people born women who claim to be men can't get pregnant. They are simply saying those people are women. "Transgender man" in this context is simply a biological woman, "transgender man" is a misnomer.

    All you and the professor are doing are prioritizing the feelings of what you perceive to be a marginalized group over the feelings of those who think traditionally, who happen to be correct.
     
    Last edited: Jul 13, 2022
    • Fistbump/Thanks! Fistbump/Thanks! x 1
  13. philnotfil

    philnotfil GC Hall of Fame

    17,730
    1,789
    1,718
    Apr 8, 2007
    What is the biological definition of woman?
     
  14. Gator715

    Gator715 GC Hall of Fame

    6,909
    846
    2,103
    Dec 6, 2015
    Woman: An adult human female.

    Female: of, relating to, or being the sex that typically has the capacity to bear young or produce eggs.

    Your turn.
     
  15. philnotfil

    philnotfil GC Hall of Fame

    17,730
    1,789
    1,718
    Apr 8, 2007
    What is a person with a penis and ovaries?
     
  16. Gator715

    Gator715 GC Hall of Fame

    6,909
    846
    2,103
    Dec 6, 2015
    What's your definition of a woman? I answered your question. You answer mine.
     
  17. Orange_and_Bluke

    Orange_and_Bluke Premium Member

    9,969
    2,381
    3,038
    Dec 16, 2015
    Rare.
     
    • Fistbump/Thanks! Fistbump/Thanks! x 1
  18. DesertGator

    DesertGator VIP Member

    4,517
    2,340
    2,013
    Apr 10, 2007
    Frisco, TX
    Someone with the actual ability to "go eff themself" (kidding obviously).

    Serious question though: Are we conflating the phrase "be a man" with "being biologically male"?
     
  19. wgbgator

    wgbgator Premium Member

    29,899
    1,861
    1,968
    Apr 19, 2007
    Wouldnt a racist say racism is an "acknowledgement of basic biology or hard truths that hurt peoples feelings?"
     
    • Agree Agree x 2
  20. gatorpa

    gatorpa GC Hall of Fame

    11,607
    1,102
    698
    Sep 5, 2010
    East Coast of FL
    You must comply and agree with the whims of anyone or you are a bigot man come on, you know this.
     
    • Like Like x 1
    • Agree Agree x 1