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Generating hate

Discussion in 'Too Hot for Swamp Gas' started by lacuna, Nov 3, 2024.

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  1. WESGATORS

    WESGATORS Moderator VIP Member

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    Respectfully, when I asked if you considered these folks unreachable, your response was:

    Maybe we have a different idea on what "unreachable" means, but I took that to mean that you don't think these people are capable of holding views that you would ever consider respectable. I would be curious to know more about what "unreachable" means to you (or otherwise what you meant by your answer).

    [EDIT: @gatordavisl would love to know what you disagree with, if you’re interested in sharing.]

    Go GATORS!
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  2. WESGATORS

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    It's an interesting dynamic, the goal essentially becomes to understand how her husband got to thinking the way he did. I suspect (just a gut feeling more than anything else) that you'll see less couple's voting because their spouses going forward than we ever had in the past.

    I think some of the keys are:

    - less demonizing of those who think differently than us (yes, we can pick out some extreme craziness that we might think is over the top, but how you address that with people who may genuinely believe such things still requires care...*if* we are truly looking to make progress)
    - a genuine willingness to understand where others are coming from and why they think the way they do
    - a genuine willingness to share something you think they might be missing with the same level of compassion that you would want them to have if they were willing to share something that you might be missing
    - more involvement in local politics with a similar respectfulness in interactions

    Go GATORS!
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  3. g8orbill

    g8orbill Old Gator Moderator VIP Member

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  4. pogba

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    "The left" versus "the right" is a joke . Folks who use these labels are generally the same that cannot tell you what legislation their candidate has voted on or supports. As a life-long free-market capitalist and fiscal conservative, there is not a party with those values. We have one party of oligarch corporate interests (Democrats) and one party of incoherent, but mostly libertarian policies that focuses on being selfish. Nixon would be considered a far-left liberal by today's standards.
     
  5. gator_jo

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    I posted precisely that;

    You have to bear in mind that one of my main points is : it's absolutely unacceptable (and indeed un-American) to vote for someone who enacted a criminal conspiracy to overturn an election. (which I stand by)

    ....and there's a line-up of people who want to jump all over me and make me feel bad inside. They are generating hate.

    I'm sorry, but not sorry that I don't feel bad about refusing to find it acceptable for a sitting US president to criminally try to overturn an election. And to attempt to not peacefully transfer power. In fact, it's pretty astounding that anyone -you, apparently, included- don't consider such un-American acts a deal-breaker in terms of receiving a cote for POTUS.

    So if someone finding that conduct abhorrent is, to you, unpleasant, maybe there are places where you'd be more comfortable? Places without a democracy to respect? What places might those be?
     
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  6. Orange_and_Bluke

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    Seems like if your story checked out…people wouldn’t have voted for Trump, you know being the hitler, racist, traitor and all.
    Seems more likely that you’ve been had.
    Think about that for more than just a few seconds.
    Let it sink in…
    You were hoodwinked by the mainstream liberal fake media.
    It was all just BULL SHIT.
     
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  7. gator_jo

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    Yeah, sure big fella. All that stuff about Trump was just lies. The sexual assault adjudication, the other 26 sexual assault allegations, the constant lies, the racist lying fear-mongering, the idiocy. It was fake, but the media tricked us. All those state cases against his criminal associates? Fake. Their frequent imprisonment? Fake. The fake elector slates? Fake fakes? :)

    Even that attack on the Capitol where hundreds of cops were beaten? Didn't actually happen, amirite?

    And this fake reality you live in is real because.....lots and lots of people were conned by the Trump? Gotcha.
     
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  8. flgator2

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    Well, it's no secret that you and I don't care for one another, for me it's your arrogance and how you try to belittle others while putting yourself on a pedestal. I will be honest I won't miss you being on TH but I do wish you well and I'm happy you realized it's unhealthy and you're doing something about it. I also hope you realize all this was self-inflicted. Thank God for President Trump and all the Great Americans who voted for him.
     
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  9. flgator2

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  11. pogba

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    Yes, his appointment of a Fox news host to oversee the world's most powerful military and an unhinged lunatic to be in charge of the FDA and CDC is a great sign that things are going to be very steady and normal the next 4 years. I am so happy that we will get the Treasury more in debt for 4 more years as the billionaires get tax cuts and we get added inflation due to tariffs and lower interest rates so they can pump the stock market up. Good stuff.
     
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  12. lacuna

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    I don't dislike you, @flgator2 and I never anticipated having to post on this forum again, or what would crack open since I did indeed resign from the moderating staff. But early Friday morning I was pulled back in by something much bigger than your posts that reek of your apparent dislike for me. I'm sorry you carry that burden around.

    I don't dislike you; I don't know your name or who you are, but I 'know' you. I have extended family like you, who have similar concerns and think as you think. I like them; love them, and will always care what happens to and with them. From your posts directed to or about me it appears you have mistakenly perceived and projected a non existent animus onto me.

    Posters on Gator Country have no knowledge of what is discussed on the moderator's forum, but that has never stopped ignorant speculation and accusations of bias continue. You might be very surprised what goes down behind the curtain. You likely think I unfairly called you out for mentioning the number of times you have charged 'libs' of being 'hate filled', made insulting accusations of mental derangement, or flamed my comments on what I observe on this forum, or in the world in general. I may be one of the few on forum who object to or condemn your continuing hostility, but I do so because of those members of my family I am reminded.

    It's bad enough conservatives and non partisans are mocked, insulted, and mislabeled 'libs'. They /we did not move left or voluntarily leave the Republican party so much as it left us in the center and moved to the far right when the more extreme members of the party had their collective head turned by Trump. Organized as MAGA they in turn snagged the attention and support of masses of angry people susceptible to their enticing lure. Trump placated and bought the voting support of this amassed group of dissatisfied Americans with promises to right what they view as wrong. The formidable political force he succeeded in gathering was successfully lured and trotted away far to the right - away from the political center - as expendable fodder, enabling Trump to achieve his own personal aims, goals.

    When I see a member of my family acting unwisely or foolishly I speak up in correction out of affection and concern. If I see others with whom I have no familial - or political - affiliation, I am less likely to speak out as I would to those related to me. As much and as frequently as you made charges of bias or other character deficiencies, what I posted on Too Hot had no connection to my moderation of same. To get away from being the target of that charge a mod would need a 2nd unknown identity to satisfy any urge to flame his political opposites.

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    For now.

    Having been accused of being biased against and more strict against right wing posters I have examined my motives more than a time or two. You are certainly free to disagree. But on what evidential grounds I know not. If I am more critical of the extreme right - and I probably am to some degree - it is because people on the extreme right remind me of a few members of my family and a couple of good friends. I am concerned for Republicans who strayed far from the center as a mother hen is concerned for all chicks in her charge, or as all mothers are most concerned for the well being of their own families, both nuclear and extended. Responsible parents, perceiving or observing a need for a reminder or instruction to do the right thing they will make it. Of course it is your prerogative to disagree with what I think, what I know, what I do or observe, or to make charges against me of whatever infraction you perceive I made when moderating this forum. But consider the words of Proverbs 15:32, which states "Whoever ignores instruction despises himself, but he who listens to reproof gains intelligence."

    When the matter that drew me in is settled I will be satisfied and leave this rancorous board.
     
  13. flgator2

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    You've always been what I thought and nothing more like I said I wish you no ill will but I am happy that you're not going to be mod you were extremely biased and rude I am also finished with our discussion
     
  14. ridgetop

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    You were clearly biased in more than one occasion. As a mod who has the power to ban, edit etc.. you chilled the board by calling out only one side and deeming them hateful. Whatever your reasons.. good or bad.. you crossed that line and deserved to be called out. Now you are back.. once again putting yourself above the fray acting as if you don't stir the pot and contribute mightily to this rancorous board. You seem to have no true self reflection on the time, dialog and effect your words have had. I believe ( again my own thought) that you have let the politics of our nations, the rancor of this board and this issues amongst your family poison your attitude and personality .
    I wish you well. I hope you find peace and contentment outside of this board and outside of politics.
     
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