No he’s not. He’s a combat controller, and not a commissioned officer, which he’d need to be in order to be in command. That’s not a slight against him, because combat controllers are highly specialized bad asses.
She is an attractive woman, which no doubt helped her candidacy. She was easily defeated by Charlie Crist in 2020, then the gerrymandering occured, Crist moved on and she won comfortably in 2022. She certainly seems to have a shifting and creative personal history depending on the audience and is often a proponent of "alternative facts". She seems to fit right in with the maga crowd.
She reminds me of when I was a kid and asked my mama why some of the prettiest women in town all of a sudden get pot-bellied. (She laughed and said she didn't know.)
If they were involved in a scandalous event that they were involved in... that might be reason to sully them the way our posters are engaging in. But guilty by association is not good enough...
The only thing Trump is thinking about her is his disappointment the husband was there and that she was pregnant. He'd have pinned her against the wall and reached into her waistband in a heartbeat if those things weren't true.